"I like for my guy to cum inside me but only if we are exclusive and have been tested".
The first time I really encountered/experienced cum was when my boyfriend and I stayed in a hotel for a week all on our own. This was actually the same day I lost my virginity, and the first time we'd done anything sexual together (we had been long distance prior and he flew over for the first time). Anyway... I lost my virginity to him and yes, he did end up cumming inside me the first time we did it. I had already been taking birth control for a month up to his visit beforehand so all was safe. I like for my guy to cum inside me but only if we are exclusive and have been tested.